After a couple of years of over extending myself with one volunteer, social or charity event after another, I’ve finally decided to take a few months off to take care of me, my home, my family, my friendships and my foundation. So for those of you who are wondering “WHERE HAS SONYA BEEN?” I’d like to share the following thought with all of you:
Have you taken time to take care of you lately? When is the last time you were truly present in your life? When is the last time you really listened to your children, your friends, your family, your significant other and/or your co-workers? It’s really hard, isn’t it? You have so many places to be, people to see and things to do. It can be draining and it can leave you feeling empty and exhausted when you’re on that gerbil wheel of “can’t stop won’t stop!”. Only you can make the choice to STOP and stop saying “Yes” to everyone and everything so you can take time out to truly nurture and love yourself and enjoy life to the fullest. It’s in these moments of self-care that you recharge and are then able to nurture and love those people, places and things in your life that truly need you.
Here’s a few tips to help you to remember how to care for yourself and enjoy the simple things in life:
1. Love yourself first and the rest will follow.
Treat yourself with the respect and care that you deserve. When you give yourself the things you need that make you feel good instead of expecting it from things and others outside of yourself, you become the master of your own destiny and a mirror for those outside of yourself. Once you raise your own standards of how you treat yourself, you will accept no less from others. Whether it’s kind self-talk, loving yourself unconditionally, bringing yourself flowers or treating yourself to a massage. Once you start practicing how you would like to be treated and you start giving yourself the things you would like more of in your life, you will naturally attract those things to you.
2. Enjoy life to the fullest.
Be present in the moment, in your life, with your loved ones and with everyone you encounter. Instead of just going through the motions each day commit to being aware and appreciating your experiences along with the sights, sounds, colors and feelings you encounter in each moment. Take time to listen to your loved ones and make sure that your really hearing what they have to say. After I lost my dear Grandmother several years back, I realized how much I had missed during our conversations because I wasn’t really present and was always thinking of the things I had to do. The stories she shared about the great depression, what she wore on her wedding day, her work as a missionary and some of her favorite secret family recipes. Oh what I would do today to have those conversations with her again! You can bet I would hear every last word of her stories! I would also be taking notes during her secret family recipe chats!
3. Be authentic.
Be yourself. Acknowledge your efforts and achievements. Eliminate negative self-talk. Instead of looking to others to make you feel good about yourself, do whatever you need to do to feel comfortable in your own skin and to become the best version of “you” possible. It’s an invaluable gift you offer yourself when you step into and appreciate who you really are, your own self-worth and the unique gifts you have to offer to the world.
4.Nurture and attend to your valuable relationships.
Be selective about who you share your energy with and ensure that those relationships are offering an equal exchange of energy. If any of your relationships leave you feeling drained and empty that’s a sure sign that you are engaged in an unhealthy one-sided relationship. Hang onto the relationships that make you feel good and lift you higher and let go of those that don’t.
5. Every morning when you wake up choose to “BE HAPPY”.
That one thought can change your whole day! Remember, you are the leading actor and the director of this movie of your life and you have the power to choose how it plays out simply by focusing on what you wish to create. Do you want to live a happy, joyful, prosperous, harmonious, loving and abundant life? Well then, what are you waiting for? This is your movie…and you get to tell the lead actor how you intend to manifest your goals. Once you get clear about what you want to create in your life, you will be surprised at how quickly the magic will begin to unfold.
6.Take care of YOU first.
Whether it’s through meditation, yoga, gardening, a walk in nature, surfing, traveling (note to self:)), writing or anything else that quiets your busy mind…it’s important to stop and clear your head and answer to no one else but YOU at least once a day. Learn to set healthy boundaries with others and say “NO” whenever necessary so you can take care of your own mind, body and spirit. It’s in these moments of silence that you recharge your soul and can then offer the same to the people that you care about.
Lastly, DONT SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF:)! Life is way too short!
Today I thought I would share with all of you my little secret behind why I try “LIKE HECK” to stay positive ALL OF THE TIME no matter how bad the situation may seem! I seek out the SILVER LINING IN EVERY SITUATION (good, bad and the ugly:))!
Did you know that every EXPERIENCE in your life has been ATTRACTED to you by your THOUGHTS? What would you like to change in your life TODAY?? Did you know it’s up to you to start CHANGING the way you think????
1. Do you want HEALTHIER, HAPPIER, AND MORE LOVING ROMANTIC/PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS????
Then start thinking about those types of healthy relationships and the wonderful love ❤ you look forward to and deserve in your life. What kind of LOVE do you want to receive? Do you want sweet phone calls, do you want emotional support, do you want honesty, do you want romance? Whatever you want in your relationships start giving that today and start leading by example. Think about every detail down of your ideal relationship… what do they look like, what do they act like, how do they treat you, and act like you already have that. STOP thinking about the ones you don’t want and/or the ones who let you down…. let go of those thoughts and start creating your dream relationship today!
2. Do you want MORE PROSPERITY and ABUNDANCE IN YOUR LIFE????
Then start thinking about the things you will do to create that prosperity and imagine it’s already happening. How will you act? What will you do when your life is full of the prosperity you deserve? STOP thinking about all the things that have gone wrong and what you don’t have or how much more someone has than you:)! There really is enough of everything for everyone! What are your goals for this new found prosperity? Would you buy your dream home or your dream car? Would you start a business? Would you travel the world? Would you give a portion to your favorite charity? Start planning for your future abundance and prosperity now✨!
3. Do you want a BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your FAMILY, CHILDREN, BOSS and/or FRIENDS?
Then start acting that way and imagine exactly how you want to relate to those people in your life. STOP thinking about how they did you wrong or how bad they have been to you or what they haven’t done for you. Forgive them and start loving ❤ them unconditionally. Understand that people only treat you the way they feel about themselves and start leading by example. If you keep loving ❤ them no matter what…they can’t help but be kind back…you loving them, will assist them in loving themselves which=loving you and others back❤!
4. Do you want a HEALTHIER and MORE FIT STRONG BODY, PRETTIER YOUNGER LOOKING SKIN, FULLER HEALTHIER HAIR, WHITER/STRAIGHTER TEETH, a more BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME FACE, etc. ??
Then focus on exactly what you want to create and see you in your mind’s eye exactly as the person you will become. Flat stomach, tone legs, 6 pack, strong body, younger looking skin AND ALL! Keep sending those messages to your body, especially when your exercising and/or making healthy food choices. The more details of exactly how you want to see your body/face, etc., the quicker you will manifest your dream body and face:)! STOP complaining about your belly fat, your flabby arms, the 5lbs. you’ve gained, your fine lines and your chubby thighs. You will manifest whatever you think about! Are you ready to create a whole new healthy and fit body, mind and appearance???
STOP THINKING ABOUT ALL OF THE THINGS YOU DON’T WANT and START THINKING ABOUT ALL OF THINGS YOU WANT AND ALREADY HAVE!!! Even if you don’t have all of these things yet, start acting like you do and seeing in your mind’s eye that you do! You have the power to attract the things you want in your life to you! I know you CAN DO THIS FRIENDS:)))! This is the “Law of Attraction”! Happy Monday friends! Now I’m off to get ready for another awesome horse polo season:)!!! Wishing you a world of everything your heart desires!
“Your thoughts create your reality-use this tool to assist you in manifesting the life you’ve always dreamed of!
But wait, you may say…”What the heck is a Vision Board and howdoes it work anyway“!? A Vision Board is a simple, yet powerful visualization tool that you create to help you to achieve your goals and dreams in any and/or all areas of your life, such as: career, health, home, relationships, travel, love, family, the person you wish to become, etc. A Vision Board is simply a cork board, poster board or flat surface of any size onto which you paste a collage of cut out pictures, drawings, words and other items that you’ve personally selected to represent a picture of the life you want to be living and/or the things you wish to become. This is how you will activate the LAW OF ATTRACTION that will enable you to MANIFEST the life of your dreams!
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to attract all the good fortune? Why is it that some people are like masters who’s desires magically appear just like wishes being granted from a genie in a bottle? Well, I’m here to tell you that YOUare the MASTER of YOUR DESTINY! You are constantly creating every second of your life, right here, right now, just by what you’re thinking. Do you want to change it? How about an upgrade? All you have to do is get clear about your HOPES, DREAMS, and WISHES and you CAN change your life for the better, forever!Vision Boards are one of the most effective tools you can use to start creating real visions of your dream life today!
Here are my 6 easy steps to help you create your very own Vision Board:
1. Gather your supplies: poster board, variety of magazines, craft glue, scissors, and one of your favorite photos of yourself (to place in the center of your board) and your favorite music.
Optional additions to embellish your board with: stickers, glitter, beads, fabric, ribbon, sketches, photographs, and anything else that makes your board your own.
2. Begin creating a list of affirmative intentions. First you need to identify your dreams and goals. Start by asking yourself…WHAT WOULD I REALLY LOVE TO HAVE IN MY LIFE? Clearly identify your goals and aspirations and the awareness of the sensations you get from achieving them in as much detail as possible. Remember, you want to suspend your disbelief so you can embrace the sensation and gratitude you feel from manifesting these experiences and what you intend to do as a result achieving those things.
Examples of Areas of Intentions:
Home-Buy a new one, sell one, purchase investment property, redecorate, etc.
Career/school/education/certification-get an advanced degree, start your own business, get a bachelor degree, obtain your real estate license, or make a million dollars in sales!
Health/beauty/body-Lose 20 lbs., get a six pack, have a beautiful smile, have a full head of beautiful healthy hair, fit into a size 4, eternal youth, etc.
Wealth/Abundance/Material Items-How much, how, what will you do with it? Buy a new home, new car, new jewelry, new yacht, exotic vacation, new polo ponies, 2nd home, etc.
Extracurricular Activities-Sports, travel, hobbies, write a book, sing, public speaking, take lessons in something, sky diving, pilots license, Olympic gold medal, etc.
The person you wish to become/ your legacy– What legacy would you like to be remembered by? Is it a charity, public office, humanitarian causes, Nobel peace prize, Goodwill Ambassador, Best Selling Author, etc.
(watch my recent live TV segment on KUSI by going to KUSI and search for vision boards.)
Now start writing those goals and aspirations down as a list of affirmative intentions that you want to create in your reality. I prefer you use affirmative intentions instead of intentions because the affirmative intentions force you out of disbelief and into trusting that everything you hoped for is already conceived and incubating in the cosmos. Affirmations empower you and begin with “I am” “I can” “I will” and “I have”. Whereas, intentions begin with “I intend to.” Don’t use the words don’t, can’t, not, try, or but. Remember to write your affirmative intentions as if they are happening RIGHT NOW! Keep writing your affirmative intentions with as much detail and emotion as possible. I want you to dive deep into your affirmations and conceive, at a cellular level, what it really “feels like” to have all of those things in this very moment! It is the feeling we strive for most when we set goals, not the goal itself. Here’s some examples of how I wrote out some affirmative intentions with visualization, feeling and imagery :
There is nothing more emotionally and spiritually rewarding to me than the feedback I receive from my followers about the extraordinary impact my positive inspirational blogs and TV segments have made on their lives. I am elated to be a positive influence in millions of people’s lives through my inspirational speaking, coaching and blogging which has made me feel proud to be one of the most influential inspirational speakers, coaches and bloggers in the world! I am fulfilled knowing I am making the world a better place to live in by sharing my tips and advice on how to live a more balanced, healthy, happy, positive and successful life!
I am always early and/or on-time to appointments, meetings and events. As a result, I arrive more relaxed and organized and I am more valuable to myself and others. Now that I realize my worth and I value of myself and my time, I’m not over scheduling myself and I’m able to be of more value to my clients. As a result, I have become one of the most sought after goal setting coaches in the corporate business world and am helping Fortune 500 companies to double their income and I am personally reaping the financial rewards of their successes because of these results.
3.Now begin collecting images that match your areas of affirmative intentions from various magazines i.e., Conde Nast Traveler, Vogue, Yoga Journal, Fortune, GQ, etc. or by googling them if you need additional images or words.
You can sit in a quiet relaxing space and put on your favorite music to make this an enjoyable endeavor. Start by tearing out any and every image, word or phrase that is in alignment with your affirmative intentions. Tear out anything that invokes a cheerful, invigorated and optimistic feeling or emotion. If you see something and it gives you goosebumps, a warm feeling, makes your heart happy or you react with “wow!” “oooooh!” “omg!” “aaaaaah!”, etc. tear it out!!! Just attempt to flow through this part of the exercise without judging the images or words you choose. Tear things out based on how it makes you feel without judging them since it is the feelings that are the most powerful part of this tool. Put all of these images into a folder to sort through and cut out in the next step.
4.Paste a radiant picture of yourself in the center of your vision board. Start sorting, selecting, cutting and organizing your images by area of intention.
Cut out and glue a radiant, happy photo of yourself in the center of your board. Review all your images again, this time keep only the images that conjure up a lot of excitement, ambition and enthusiasm. Eliminate the images that no longer feel in alignment. Begin cutting out and laying your words and images on your vision board working from the center photo of yourself outward, by area of intention or scattered if you chose a diffused theme (I like to keep the clippings from the images in a baggie so I can refer to them later to confirm my manifestations since location or other details are sometimes cut off the original images).
5.Begin gluing everything on your board.
You can arrange everything with adhesive putty first and then glue with craft glue once you have all of the images in the order you want them.
6.Hang your vision board somewhere that you will see it everywhere.
The goal of your vision board is to be a reminder of the things you are hoping to accomplish and the feelings you get from achieving them. While creating your board is a motivator to achieving your goals, you need to take action to make your goals a reality. Use the images to create a plan of action and then start doing what you need to do to turn those plans into a reality. By viewing your vision board on a regular basis, and remembering the feelings you get from accomplishing your goals, you are maintaining focus and reminding yourself of what you hope to accomplish and more importantly the feeling you will have by obtaining these goals. It is the feeling we are most attracted to with the outcome of a goal…not the goal itself.
Please share all of your vision board success stories in the comments below. I love hearing all of your success stories and your stories of manifestations will help to inspire my followers too!
Happy Manifesting! Wishing you all the BEST year in 2018 and the years to follow!
Make sure to checkout my guest appearance on Good Morning San Diego with everything you need to know about creating your very own Vision Board for 2018, so you can begin manifesting the life you’ve always dreamed of having. Sonya Berg Vision Boards
Hey all you fashionista, socialite, A-list, people watching, adrenaline junkies out there…the day you’ve all been waiting for is finally here! Mark your calendars for the 30th Annual Opening Day of Polo on Sunday, June 5th, 2016!
You may be wondering, but what’s so amazing about Opening Day of Polo? Well, I’m here to tell you, it’s by far one of San Diego’s most attended, fashionable and captivating extravaganzas of the summer! With over 4000 spectators in attendance, the Player’s Lounge styled by Modern Luxury and VIP tent will be swarming with beautiful people including jet setters and some of San Diego’s most elite socialites, dashing hipsters and celebrities.
There’s always a soul-buzzing vibe created by the horses charging down the field, the solid click of mallets on the ball and the clinking of champagne glasses and divot stomping at half time (yes, that’s right, just like Julia Roberts did in “Pretty Woman”). Of course, there’s plenty of food and libations for glamorous guest to enjoy while they’re busy socializing and taking selfies. If laid back is more your style, join friends in the general admission area with picnic tables, craft cocktails and giant jenga! No matter where you sit, Opening Day of Polo has something for everyone. It’s a place where new friends meet and old friends and family reconnect and celebrate.
Now, how are we going to get you looking chic and on point for Opening Day of Polo? Let’s start with the basics….
1. Wear Hats.
Wide brimmed straw hats and fedoras! Opening Day of Polo tends to be a bit more relaxed in style than Opening Day at the Races. Hats help to provide protection from the sun and add a more polished look to your attire. For a sophisticated and classic polo style, stick with unembellished and simple less structured wide brimmed straw hats and fedora.
2. Wedges, espadrilles, chunky heels or flat sandals. Remember ladies; half time divot stomping is a polo tradition and a ton of fun to boot! If you don’t want to turn you champagne sipping, selfie taking, divot stomping escapade into a perilous experience…then wear wedges or flat sandals and leave those stilettos at home!
3. Stay on trend: dresses, skirts, jumpsuits, palazzo pants and rompers.
Ladies remember if your watching polo from the Player’s Lounge styled by Modern Luxury or the VIP tent, dress in refined and classy styles.This Nicole Miller lace jumpsuit is the perfect VIP fresh and feminine silhouette. Micro pleats were all the rage on the spring 2016 NY fashion week runway. Look in vogue while keeping your cool wearing flowing styles like this ivory pallazo pant combined with a green micro pleat strapless top.
4. Lighten it up with various shades of white, or go bold with bright colors, prints or patterns!
Monochromatic ensembles in shades of crisp white and crème look sophisticated and elegant for polo and they keep you cool in the sunlight. If you want to look in vogue in monochromatic hues then choose one of spring and summers current fashions like this trendy, powder white eyelet romper; notice the statement bell sleeves! Both of these other looks are perfect for Opening Day and very fashionable. Keep it classy with a touch of sass, this pearl white lace jumpsuit with plunging neckline is a must! Looking for a romantic twist? Try this romantic eggshell lace dress with a beautiful open back.Go bold or go home! Opening Day of Polo is the day to sport those vibrant, jewel toned colors that look great when you’re striking a pose with your girlfriends.
Feeling flirty? Try a playful patterns, which are a fun alternative to solid colored attire. If Boho Chic is your style, this whimsical floral print dress is flowy and looks hip with a trend setting suede fringe hobo bag and a fedora. Other prints to try for your Opening Day of polo look are oversized bright graphic prints, colorful tropical prints and polka dots.
5. Wear lightweight fabrics like cotton, silk and linen that are breathable.
Your choice of fabric is just as important as the color, shape, style and accessories of your summertime polo viewing outfit. You want to stay cool while looking chic and protecting your skin from too much direct sunlight.Organic or natural fibers absorb moisture from the skin and allow it to evaporate. In contrast, synthetic fibers are water repellent, which results in evaporation reduction, unsightly perspiration rings, discomfort and irritation. Cotton, linen, silk and even rayon are all excellent choices because they’re lightweight and breathable fabrics and help to keep you cool. For additional comfort on a hot sunny day at Opening Day of Polo choose a summer outfit with cut outs or a large open weave, like eyelet or lace. Flared skirts; billowy dresses, skirts and pants; halter dresses; strapless dresses and other sleeveless options are other styles that will keep you cool while looking fashion forward.
6. Don’t forget to accessorize with trendy sunglasses, playful color coordinating accessories, a wrap, stylish hair, manicured nails and pared down radiant makeup.
We talked about hats and shoes, but there’s so much more to play with. Want to create instant movie star mystery, intrigue and glamour? Start by donning a pair of trendy oversized, mirrored lenses or embellished sunglasses and voila! Add a chic chunky collar necklace with streamlined leather straps and crafted from shimmering resin beads; they’re versatile enough to go from day to night and casual to dressy. It could get a little chilly at dusk so don’t forget to bring a pretty summer wrap, shawl, sweater or jacket, in a complementary print or monochromatic color, to throw over your shoulders when the sun is setting and your dancing the night away at the 7th Chukker After Party! And last, but definitely not least, make sure your hair, nails and make-up leaves you feeling fresh and beautiful out in the sun on Opening Day! Beautiful fresh skin and minimalist makeup with a natural luminous base is trending for summer.
Now that all of your stunning polo viewing sirens have the look down, go throw on your Louboutins and flaunt your beautiful self at Opening Day of Polo on June 5th!
Just in case you haven’t heard all the hype yet, the 29th annual Opening Day of San Diego Polo Club summer season is only a couple of weeks away, on Sunday, May 31, 2015.
You know what that means, don’t you? Well, for starters, Opening Day of San Diego Polo is an overall experience. It’s where chic meets sophisticated and trendsetting fashionistas; it’s the most adrenaline pumping and action packed spectator sport; it’s where family and friends reconnect and celebrate; it’s where the jet-setting, celebrities and elite social scene meet; it’s the food and libations (yes, plenty of sipping your favorite bubbly); it’s the divot stomping at half time (think Julia Roberts in “Pretty Woman”); but most of all, it’s one of the most grandiose glam meets stylish fashion fetes of the summer in San Diego!
The hot topic of the moment for all of you glam and dapper polo-ites is “What to wear to Opening Day of Polo? Don’t you fret, I’ve got your back! I’ve put together the Ultimate Style Guide to ensure you’re looking sharp and classy at this fashion-forward affair.
Sonya Berg Zen Fashionista | 6 Tips for Her | Opening Day of Polo Attire
WEAR: Dresses, skirts, rompers, jumpsuits, palazzo pants and slacks
Ladies dresses should be classy and casually sophisticated. Consider slightly above the knee, mid-length or maxi sundresses or skirts in solids or printed fabrics. Fabrics that are cool and flowy are perfect for viewing a polo match on a sunny summer afternoon.
For a more playful and sporty frock try a fit and flare dress in a graphic pattern. Cutout dresses add a peek-a-boo effect without revealing too much.
Nothing echoes summer and femininity like a strapless dress or halter dress in a bright color. A touch of shimmer fabric like his turquoise strapless dress will take you from polo viewing by day to the highly anticipated 7th chucker after party sponsored by Riviera Magazine at night.
If a fresh and flirty twist is what you’re looking for, choose a flowing dress, jumpsuit or floral romper in a lux fabric. These are some of the selections by ASOS that would be a perfect choice for the younger generation to wear on Opening Day of Polo. Just add a pair of sunglasses and a sassy hat for a look that’s whimsical and in vogue.
For a more refined and mature option try palazzo pants or slacks in breezy lightweight fabrics. For a chic and classy look try something like these navy and white polka dot pleated silk pants available at Saks Fifth Ave., paired with a red or white blouse and coordinating hat and mini chain shoulder bag.
SHOES: Wedges, espadrilles, gladiator sandals or flat sandals
Remember to leave those stilettos at home ladies, not only are they a polo fashion faux pas, but they can turn your half time champagne sipping, photo posing and divot stomping fun into a hazardous experience!
Opt for a more practical and comfortable shoe like a wedge heel, espadrille or a pretty metallic or crystal embellished flat sandal.
If you want to get a little more creative and playful with your style you can add a pop of color with your shoes and accessories. Try adding a shoe in a color that complements your attire, like I did by adding this chic lipstick red suede ankle strap wedge by Chloe to my simple solid navy cotton sundress. Add a hat and a clutch in a similar shade of lipstick red to pull the look together.
You can refine your look even further with nails and toes that are polished to perfection in the same shade. My favorite shade of red nail polish is Dior Vernis gel shine nail lacquer 999 Rouge 999.
If you’re looking for a wedge that will go with everything, start with a nude wedge. These are my newest favorite wedges. The Christian Loubitin Cataclou wedge in suede and embellished with gold studs. It’s available in several colors at Neiman Marcus and Saks fifth ave.
COLORS: White, crème, pastels, bright colors, jewel tones, solids and prints
Now let’s talk about color…. soothing white, shades of crème, bright colors, rich jewel tones and light pastels are a staple for summer and polo because they help to keep you cool while looking fresh, and the jewel tones and bright colors look great on camera when your striking a pose. Pretty feminine floral prints, whimsical patterns and geometric patterns are current for polo.
Monochromatic is always an elegant look for polo whether your wearing a romantic silhouette like this ballerina inspired maxi column dress in ethereal white or this fluid fuchsia sheath. If lady like floral prints are your thing this brush stroked oversized floral print body conscious dress in monochromatic coral red shades looks chic and is light as air in a mesh stretch fabric.
This white & vibrant blue floral dress is a great way to wear a floral print that looks elegant and will keep you cool in warm weather.
Gen Y Millennials may want to try a vintage romper in a playful floral print. Floral print rompers not only embody spring and summer but they can add an eclectic style as alternative choice.
Monochromatic dressing makes a simple and chic background to showcase any statement accessory. This wide brimmed hat in bright fuchsia adds a cheerful pop of color that takes this ensemble from elegant to game on!
Even against this basic black and white sheath a fuchsia hat makes a dramatic statement piece.
If you want to sport one of the hottest colors trending the runway for summer 2015, then try something in any shade of aquamarine like this hot little strapless number by Flavio Castellani.
Or this simple sheath in a shade of aquamarine by Nicole Miller.
Soft yellow custard and every shade of yellow in between are trending for 2015. If yellow is what you desire, try anything in saffron and marigold to amber and lime. To find the right shade of yellow for you find one that compliments your undertones. This chartreuse dress is a perfect pop of color that’s sharp and vibrant and sure to make you stand out amongst the polo crowd. A dark wedge and this chic wide brimmed hat add the perfect contrast and add depth to complete this look.
A graceful fit and flare dress with cut outs is alluring and elegant in this sophisticated chartreuse, black and white modern baroque print.
Nautical is in for spring and summer of 2015. Lots of classic red, white and blue is popping up everywhere! Since solid color jewel tones will keep everyone looking sharp and they’re the secret to looking great on camera, you can’t go wrong wearing a bright color or jewel tone on Opening Day. Like these jewel tones in his and her styles.
Everyone will want to look especially polished too since the photo ops abound on Opening Day. You’ll be taking picture everywhere from the step & repeat at the entry to the countless posings with your friends and the polo ponies and players.
This New Blue techno metal stretch dress with cut out waist by Nicole Miller will flatter the figure by accentuating the waistline and it will complement most skin tones to keep you looking great on camera.
Vibrant electric blue is always stunning especially on brunettes.
Black and White is another lively option for polo dressing; especially in a polka dot print lightweight knit dress or a tropical print sheath sundress. Or you can create a retro canvas for your pop of color accessories by choosing a simple black and white sheath like this one.
Ladies when you make a summer outfit you need to think about the colors, patterns, textures and accessories as much as you think about the textiles. You want to look stylish while staying cool and protecting your skin from too much direct sunlight. That means you should consider lightweight and breezy fabrics that are natural and breathe. Some examples of light and breathable fabrics are: Linen, cotton and rayon (even though rayon is a synthetic fabric it’s made from natural raw materials and resembles those natural properties). Light colors will stay cooler than dark colors because they reflect the light. Another consideration is natural fibers absorb moisture from the skin and allow it to evaporate while synthetic fibers will be water repellent and allow sweat to build up, reducing evaporation causing discomfort and irritation. Cut outs, flared skirts, flowing dresses, strapless dresses, halter dresses and sleeveless options made from these natural fabrics are an even better summer outfit option. Don’t forget your sunscreen, hat and sunglasses for a little extra sun protection.
As you can see from these crisp linen dresses and stylish linen jacket, linen is one of summer’s joys! It’s light and breathable, and it has a unique lightly wrinkled texture that gives it charm and makes it stands out in any ensemble.
Now you’re probably thinking…”Hey, wait a minute, what about the hats? Do we need to wear a hat to Opening Day?”
While hats definitely aren’t mandatory at Opening Day of Polo they are a great excuse to transform your outfit and add your own personal style and personality to your look while providing protection from the sun. Whether it’s a more casual sporty and polished look your wanting to achieve or an elegant garden party effect, hats can do the trick.
If you’re sitting in the VIP tent at Opening Day of polo, the dress tends to be similar to Opening Day of the races. You will likely see daytime cocktail dresses with structured wide brimmed hats and color-coordinated hats like these.
Another very poloesque option, if dressy and sporty are appealing to you, is a wide brimmed straw hat with a solid color sundress or a sporty print with similar hues of a neutral colored wide-brimmed hat.
Fedoras and other casual but stylish chapeaus are another option, especially for the more youthful crowd.
Accessories: Big Sunglasses, Handbags, Wraps, Accessories
For show stopping style…don’t forget your sunglasses! Whether you’re wearing over-sized sunglasses to create that mysterious movie star look or a crystal embellished classic style for a more glamorous touch, sunglasses will come in handy to keep you from squinting on a bright sunny day.
I love the selection of trendy shades in every shape, style, size and color that I have found at Gaffos.com.
The Tom Ford oversized shade is super chic! For those of you who want to take your style factor to a whole new level it comes in some extra sweet colors like pink, fuchsia and lilac!
Another shade I just love is the Prada Strass fashion sunglasses! They have a thick rectangular ivory frame with whimsical black temples embellished with crystals. They scream I’m a styleista!
High fashion round smoke glitter silver frames with wire temple . Have just the right amount of retro.
Keep your styling simple by matching your accessories. A small sophisticated clutch will take you from day to night, like this Prada nude snakeskin clutch from Neiman Marcus or this Chanel patent lipstick red clutch. You can increase your glam factor by adding sparkling accessories like a ring, bracelet and earrings in gold or styles and colors that complement your ensemble and accessories.
When choosing your handbag keep in mind that most of the day you’ll be sipping a glass of champagne with one hand while holding your cell phone in the other, so a small hands free bag is a stylish and practical option to take you from day until night. I love the new playful multi color paillette baguette shoulder bag by Fendi, covered in festive paillettes in turquoise, orange, white and yellow hues.
Another adorable option is the Givenchy Pandora mini box in exotic black and white snakeskin with orange color block. It’s sure to standout against any white or coral ensemble like this color block tangerine and burnt orange linen sheath dress by Nicole Miller.
Add playful texture to your attire with a feather hair accessory that complements your dress.
Even though it will be warm and sunny during the action packed afternoon it could get a little chilly when the sun is setting and your dancing the night away at Riviera Magazines 7th Chukker After Party. Don’t forget to bring a small complementary colored lightweight cashmere wrap, scarf, sweater or elegant jacket to throw over your shoulders at dusk to avoid the shivers.
Sonya Berg Zen Fashionista | 5 Tips for Him | Opening Day of Polo Attire
WEAR: Sports Coats, Blazers, Patterned Shirts, Collared Shirts, Open Weave Twill Slacks or Chinos in white, khaki or colored and preppy attire
Opening Day of Polo is a festive affair and an opportunity for the well-dressed man to add a summer weight sports coats or blazer to his ensemble (jackets are optional) for a more refined style.
Summer-weave crisp cotton and linen button down collared shirts in both patterns and solid colors are a staple of a man’s Opening Day of Polo Attire.
The selection of pants worn to Opening Day of Polo range from dressy shorts in patterns and solids to Chinos in white, khaki and preppy colors.
White pants with a Glen Plaid sports coat in shades of blue will give an outfit a vacation look, especially when paired with a collared shirt in a complementary color like this tangerine mini check button down.
For the ultimate cool factor during a hot summer day of polo viewing, go with light, off white and crème nuances for your basic pieces.
If soft colors like pink, lavender, yellow and blue are unexplored color territory that you desire to venture, Opening Day of Polo is a great time to try these fashion forward colors out as one of your basic pieces such as your jacket, shirt or bow tie in a solid or print.
Shades of blue, stripes, madras, glen plaid, gingham check, mini checks and whimsical patterns are often seen on sports coats and button downs.
Combining preppy hues like navy, lime green and pink in solids and prints is another common for Opening Day Attire.
FABRICS: Linen, Cotton, Seersucker, Open Weave Twill and Poplin, Chambray and Madras
The well-dressed man must consider several essential components when selecting fabrics for the attire he will wear for viewing polo on a warm sunny day at Opening Day of Polo.
First and foremost, the fabric should be lightweight. The finer the thread, the looser the weave, and the more porous the material is the more the fabric breathes and the less work your body has to do to stay cool. An open weave fabric made from natural fibers vs. synthetic fibers is preferred. Synthetic fibers are typically non-breathable and are more likely to hold sweat and air in.
Cotton is the most common staple textile in most men’s summer wardrobe. It’s light and breathable and it’s less expensive than linen.
Linen on the other hand is also a light and breathable fabric but it has a texture that gives it character and charm and makes it a unique choice for a button down shirt or sports coat. Some men dislike linen because it wrinkles too easily. This cornflower blue linen and cotton blend sports coat is an example of a blend of cotton and linen that has a hint of the composition of linen without all of its inherent wrinkling.
Other open weave fabrics which are a smart choice for keeping cool and looking good all day long at Opening Day of Polo, are other light weight open weaves such as; seersucker, twill, poplin, gingham, chambray and madras. These fabrics are a popular choice for everything from sports coats to collared shirts, dressy shorts and even some trousers.
SHOES: Driving Shoes, Boat Shoes, Loafers, Oxfords (light in color)
Men, leave your jeans and sneakers at home on Opening Day (unless you’re tailgating, that is). Your shoes can literally make or break an entire outfit, so be diligent on selecting what to wear on your feet. Nothing says classy summer style more than a pair of suede loafers or driving moccasins in a light color. Match your pants and shoes for a lengthening effect and overall summer style, like this white Ferrigamo suede loafer and putty chinos.
Want to have your own stand out style on Opening Day? Why not try on a colored suede shoe? Try it in a shade of blue similar to your jacket. Then use a neutral chino and a complementary colored cotton button down, like this mini check tangerine shirt, to break up the blues and avoid looking overly matchy.
ACCESSORIES & HATS: Bow ties, Cuff links, Straw Panama Hats, Fedoras and Boat Hats and Sunglasses
Want to create a signature look on Opening Day that will ensure you will be remembered? Then try on a bow tie for style. Jill Courtemache in Solana Beach carries a wide range of bow ties and hats for every guy. You can even get a bow tie and a boat hat with a color coordinated ribbon band from her store.
Remember when choosing a bowtie size that it should fit between the outside of a man’s eyes and the edge of the head to be well proportioned. When choosing a color or pattern of bowtie remember to use different sizes and types of patterns like this yellow mini check patterned collared shirt, navy polka dot pocket square and tri-color shadow stripe bow tie that pulls all three colors together.
Cuff links are hip and they look stylin’ when used in place of buttons to hold a man’s French cuffs around his wrist. Cuff links add an element of elegance and style to any man’s outfit. What better occasion to transform your ordinary outfit into something suave and debonair than Opening Day of Polo? Remember to match your cuff links to something in your outfit and to wear a blazer or sports coat that complements the ensemble for a polished appearance.
Opening Day of Polo is the perfect time to wear a hat. A hat not only provides protection from the sun but it’s the ideal accessory to help to finish off an outfit, adding a sartorial statement piece. Add a Fedora, Panama hat or other straw hat to achieve the look that’s the epitome of a well-dressed man. A straw hat with a band that complements your attire or a hat in a complementary shade of your ensemble is the key to wearing a hat well. If your attending Opening Day with a date and want to score a few extra points in style and with your date, add a pocket square that compliments your dates outfit. This is how the stylish man rolls as you can see:
If you want to look like a rock star and you don’t want to be squinting in the sun all day at Opening Day of Polo, then don’t forget to wear a pair of superfly sunglasses! Stylish sunglasses will keep you looking sharp while staying focused and avoiding the glare of the sun. The following are some of my favorite summer sunglasses for men in 2015:
These sunglasses add a little mobster style film producer
Sonya Berg Zen Fashionista | Style Tip for Tailgaters | Opening Day of Polo Attire
WEAR: Casual, Relaxed attire
For those of you who have decided to enjoy Opening Day of Polo in a more informal setting while tailgating from the back of your car and picnicking with family and friends, the dress is more casual and relaxed. Women will often wear casual sundresses, rompers or shorts in light and graceful fabrics and wear a fedora or simple straw hat for sun protection. Men may opt. for khaki shorts or jeans and a polo shirt in a light color. Simple leather sandals are a comfortable shoe option that works well for polo spectators who are tailgating.
Now that you will all be dressed for the occasion, the most important part of the day is to have fun and celebrate, enjoy your time re uniting with family and friends, make some new friends and enjoy the adventure of action packed polo and a festive social scene at Opening Day of Polo 2015!
Thank you to our vendors:
Women’s Dresses: Matti D Clothing, Del Mar (turquoise geometric patterned dress, navy blue cotton dress, aquamarine strapless and vibrant blue strapless dresses) & Nicole Miller, at The Forum in Carlsbad (remaining dresses).
Jill Courtemanche Millinery, Solana Beach, CA (turquoise with black and navy accents formal wide brimmed hat, off-white structured with off white ribbon shown with navy cut out dress and black wide brimmed hat with baroque print dress) & Del Mar Hat Company, Del Mar, CA (remaining hats)
Polo is a fashionable affair and packed with family-friendly fun! Polo’s elite and luxury lifestyle makes it the perfect venue to see and be seen in your most elegant styles and chic fashions.
Right about now you’re probably thinking decisions…decisions…. what to wear for Closing Day of Polo? Sonya Berg, also known as the Zen Fashionista, has prepared the Ultimate Style Guide for how to dress for Closing Day.
Zen Fashionista’s 8 Style Tips for Closing Day of Polo:
Red is the color of the day on Closing Day and will match the beautiful scarlet red roses that fill the Spreckles Cup trophy and coats of the lead fox huntsman. Think true red, raspberry, ruby, burgundy, brick red, crimson, cherry, candy apple red and any shade in between.
ACCESSORIZE: Feel free to get creative and playful here. Can’t find the perfect red dress? Try a jacket, hat, ring, shoe, pocket square, sunglasses, clutch or any other accessory. You can even paint your nails red and wear a matching red lipstick. I love Dior Rouge 999 and Pandore 754 for a classic red lip and nail. Silver, black and white are other suggested colors to mix with your red on Closing Day of Polo.
It could get chilly at dusk when your dancing the night away with the talented DJ Beatnick who will be spinning the beats. Don’t forget to bring a wrap like this Versace scarf or any other lightweight cashmere wrap, sweater or elegant jacket to throw over your shoulders. The after party is a perfect ending to perfect day of action packed fun and thrilling polo adventure! Enjoy a refreshing cocktail while dancing on the grass. You’ll even have a chance to mix and mingle with the professional polo players and patrons to complete your Closing Day of Polo experience.
Wear A Fabulous Hat or a Fun Fascinator
Closing Day, September 28th is also Hat Day! If you’ve been searching for the perfect occasion to wear your favorite hat, this is it. Ladies can wear elegant wide brimmed hats embellished with feathers and organza silk to provide sun protection and make a unique fashion statement. Fascinators are whimsical, fun and easy to wear. Like this little black fascinator trimmed with ruby red feathers.
There’s still enough time for last minute shopping to find a beautiful hat or fascinator to wear to Closing Day. All of the hats and fascinators pictured are designed by the amazing Jill Courtemanche Millinery.
Gentlemen grab your fedoras for an added touch of class and style to your Closing Day Polo attire.
Wear Wedges or Flat Sandals
Remember ladies, you’ll be sipping champagne and stomping divots at half time, so leave those stilettos at home! Not only are stilettos a fashion faux pas at polo, they can also make half time divot stomping very complicated. For comfort and style while enjoying a fun day on the grass try a red or metallic wedge or an elegant crystal embellished flat sandal instead.
Wear Simple Flowing and Elegant Sundresses and Skirts
A sundress that’s simple, feminine and elegant is perfect for viewing a polo match on a sunny afternoon. A body conscious knit dress that’s cool and breathable in crimson red is a perfect choice for the red theme on Closing Day.
Can’t find a red dress? Opt for a dress in neutral hues like cream, pearl, silver, black or white for a classic and timeless look. This elegant hand beaded shift dress in white is perfect for Closing Day when paired with a lipstick red Chanel clutch, hat and nails.
Feeling feminine? This intricate lace shift dress does best paired with metallic wedges and accented with a bright red hat.
Men Wear Sport coats, Patterned Shirts and Bowties
A crisp collared shirt and slacks will work just fine for the men. If you want to dress to impress, try a sports coat in any shade of red like this crimson sports coat and matching tie.
You can also wear a classic black and white checked sports coat accented with a scarlet pocket square, shoes and belt. Slim fit suits, bowties and other preppy attire are always stylish for men to wear to Closing Day.
Tailgater Style Is More Casual and Relaxed
If you’ve decided to enjoy Closing Day of Polo tailgating from the back of your car and picnicking with family and friends, the attire is much more casual and relaxed here. Women often wear casual sundresses in light and breezy fabrics with straw hats for sun protection and simple leather sandals or flip-flops.
Want to stay with the red theme for Closing Day? Choose a red sundress or accent your attire with any red accessory. Casual khakis with a red t-shirt and cotton or linen shorts in any shade of red worn with boat shoes or flip-flops are a good option for men tailgaters. Jeans are also an option for casual tailgating.
Children Dress to Impress
Pull out those comfortable party dresses in shades of red, silver, black and/or white. Boys will look dapper in chinos or a red colored cotton slacks with a patterned crisp collared shirt with red accents or in any shade of red. Girls and boys should wear comfortable dressy casual shoes. Think pretty sandals, flats in red or neutral hues and boat shoes for boys.
Wear Big Sunglasses
What’s more glamorous than a pair of oversized sunglasses? Big sunglasses give your face a mysterious movie-star look while providing extra protection from the sun. For show-stopping style, choose an oversized crystal embellished sunglass in red. Men, smaller stylish glasses are on trend and dress up any outfit.
Most of all, have fun and get ready to watch the finals of the USPA Spreckels Cup!