4 Steps to Creating Your “Dream-Life”

Today I thought I would share with all of you my little secret behind why I try “LIKE HECK” to stay positive ALL OF THE TIME no matter how bad the situation may seem! I seek out the SILVER LINING IN EVERY SITUATION (good, bad and the ugly:))!

Did you know that every EXPERIENCE in your life has been ATTRACTED to you by your THOUGHTS? What would you like to change in your life TODAY?? Did you know it’s up to you to start CHANGING the way you think????

1. Do you want HEALTHIER, HAPPIER, AND MORE LOVING ROMANTIC/PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS????

Then start thinking about those types of healthy relationships and the wonderful love ❤ you look forward to and deserve in your life. What kind of LOVE do you want to receive? Do you want sweet phone calls, do you want emotional support, do you want honesty, do you want romance? Whatever you want in your relationships start giving that today and start leading by example. Think about every detail down of your ideal relationship… what do they look like, what do they act like, how do they treat you, and act like you already have that.  STOP thinking about the ones you don’t want and/or the ones who let you down…. let go of those thoughts and start creating your dream relationship today!

2. Do you want MORE PROSPERITY and ABUNDANCE IN YOUR LIFE????

Then start thinking about the things you will do to create that prosperity and imagine it’s already happening. How will you act? What will you do when your life is full of the prosperity you deserve? STOP thinking about all the things that have gone wrong and what you don’t have or how much more someone has than you:)!  There really is enough of everything for everyone! What are your goals for this new found prosperity? Would you buy your dream home or your dream car? Would you start a business? Would you travel the world? Would you give a portion to your favorite charity? Start planning for your future abundance and prosperity now✨!

3. Do you want a BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your FAMILY, CHILDREN, BOSS and/or FRIENDS?

Then start acting that way and imagine exactly how you want to relate to those people in your life. STOP thinking about how they did you wrong or how bad they have been to you or what they haven’t done for you. Forgive them and start loving ❤ them unconditionally. Understand that people only treat you the way they feel about themselves and start leading by example. If you keep loving ❤ them no matter what…they can’t help but be kind back…you loving them, will assist them in loving themselves which=loving you and others back❤!

4. Do you want a HEALTHIER and MORE FIT STRONG BODY, PRETTIER YOUNGER LOOKING SKIN, FULLER HEALTHIER HAIR, WHITER/STRAIGHTER TEETH, a more BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME FACE, etc. ??

Then focus on exactly what you want to create and see you in your mind’s eye exactly as the person you will become. Flat stomach, tone legs, 6 pack, strong body, younger looking skin AND ALL! Keep sending those messages to your body, especially when your exercising and/or making healthy food choices. The more details of exactly how you want to see your body/face, etc., the quicker you will manifest your dream body and face:)! STOP complaining about your belly fat, your flabby arms, the 5lbs. you’ve gained, your fine lines and your chubby thighs. You will manifest whatever you think about! Are you ready to create a whole new healthy and fit body, mind and appearance???

STOP THINKING ABOUT ALL OF THE THINGS YOU DON’T WANT and START THINKING ABOUT ALL OF THINGS YOU WANT AND ALREADY HAVE!!! Even if you don’t have all of these things yet, start acting like you do and seeing in your mind’s eye that you do! You have the power to attract the things you want in your life to you!  I know you CAN DO THIS FRIENDS:)))! This is the “Law of Attraction”! Happy Monday friends! Now I’m off to get ready for another awesome horse polo season:)!!! Wishing you a world of everything your heart desires!

6 Steps To Creating A Magnetic Vision Board That Works!

 

“Your thoughts create your reality-use this tool to assist you in manifesting the life you’ve always dreamed of!

But wait, you may say…”What the heck is a Vision Board and how does it work anyway !?  A Vision Board is a simple, yet powerful visualization tool that you create to help you to achieve your goals and dreams in any and/or all areas of your life, such as: career, health, home, relationships, travel, love, family, the person you wish to become, etc.  A Vision Board is simply a cork board, poster board or flat surface of any size onto which you paste a collage of cut out pictures, drawings, words and other items that you’ve personally selected to represent a picture of the life you want to be living and/or the things you wish to become. This is how you will activate the LAW OF ATTRACTION that will enable you to MANIFEST the life of your dreams!

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to attract all the good fortune?  Why is it that some people are like masters who’s desires magically appear just like wishes being granted from a genie in a bottle?  Well, I’m here to tell you that YOU are the MASTER of YOUR DESTINY!  You are constantly creating every second of your life, right here, right now, just by what you’re thinking.  Do you want to change it?  How about an upgrade?   All you have to do is get clear about your HOPES, DREAMS, and WISHES and you CAN change your life for the better, forever!  Vision Boards are one of the most effective tools you can use to start creating real visions of your dream life today!

Here are my 6 easy steps to help you create your very own Vision Board:

 1. Gather your supplies: poster board, variety of magazines, craft glue, scissors, and one of your favorite photos of yourself (to place in the center of your board) and your favorite music.

Optional additions to embellish your board with: stickers, glitter, beads, fabric, ribbon, sketches, photographs, and anything else that makes your board your own.

2.  Begin creating a list of affirmative intentions. First you need to identify your dreams and goals.  Start by asking yourself…WHAT WOULD I REALLY LOVE TO HAVE IN MY LIFE?   Clearly identify your goals and aspirations and the awareness of the sensations you get from achieving them in as much detail as possible.  Remember, you want to suspend your disbelief so you can embrace the sensation and gratitude you feel from manifesting these experiences and what you intend to do as a result achieving those things.

Examples of Areas of Intentions:

Home-Buy a new one, sell one, purchase investment property, redecorate, etc.

Career/school/education/certification-get an advanced degree, start your own business, get a bachelor degree, obtain your real estate license, or make a million dollars in sales!

Health/beauty/body-Lose 20 lbs., get a six pack, have a beautiful smile, have a full head of beautiful healthy hair, fit into a size 4, eternal youth, etc.

Relationships-family, friends, colleagues, love, dating, engagement, marriage, children, happily ever after, etc.

Wealth/Abundance/Material Items-How much, how, what will you do with it?  Buy a new home, new car, new jewelry, new yacht, exotic vacation, new polo ponies, 2nd home, etc.

Extracurricular Activities-Sports, travel, hobbies, write a book, sing, public speaking, take lessons in something, sky diving, pilots license, Olympic gold medal, etc.

The person you wish to become/ your legacy– What legacy would you like to be remembered by? Is it a charity, public office, humanitarian causes, Nobel peace prize, Goodwill Ambassador, Best Selling Author, etc.


(watch my recent live TV segment on KUSI by going to KUSI and search for vision boards.)

Now start writing those goals and aspirations down as a list of affirmative intentions that you want to create in your reality.  I prefer you use affirmative intentions instead of intentions because the affirmative intentions force you out of disbelief and into trusting that everything you hoped for is already conceived and incubating in the cosmos.  Affirmations empower you and begin with “I am” “I can” “I will” and “I have”.  Whereas, intentions begin with “I intend to.”  Don’t use the words don’t, can’t, not, try, or but.  Remember to write your affirmative intentions as if they are happening RIGHT NOW!  Keep writing your affirmative intentions with as much detail and emotion as possible.  I want you to dive deep into your affirmations and conceive, at a cellular level, what it really “feels like” to have all of those things in this very moment!  It is the feeling we strive for most when we set goals, not the goal itself.  Here’s some examples of how I wrote out some affirmative intentions with visualization, feeling and imagery :

  • There is nothing more emotionally and spiritually rewarding to me than the feedback I receive from my followers about the extraordinary impact my positive inspirational blogs and TV segments have made on their lives.  I am elated to be a positive influence in millions of people’s lives through my inspirational speaking, coaching and blogging which has made me feel proud to be one of the most influential inspirational speakers, coaches and bloggers in the world!  I am fulfilled knowing I am making the world a better place to live in by sharing my tips and advice on how to live a more balanced, healthy, happy, positive and successful life!
  • I am always early and/or on-time to appointments, meetings and events.  As a result, I arrive more relaxed and organized and I am more valuable to myself and others.  Now that I realize my worth and I value of myself and my time, I’m not over scheduling myself and I’m able to be of more value to my clients.  As a result, I have become one of the most sought after goal setting coaches in the corporate business world and am helping Fortune 500 companies to double their income and I am personally reaping the financial rewards of their successes because of these results.

3.  Now begin collecting images that match your areas of affirmative intentions from various magazines i.e., Conde Nast Traveler, Vogue, Yoga Journal, Fortune, GQ, etc.  or by googling them if you need additional images or words.

You can sit in a quiet relaxing space and put on your favorite music to make this an enjoyable endeavor.  Start by tearing out any and every image, word or phrase that is in alignment with your affirmative intentions.  Tear out anything that invokes a cheerful, invigorated and optimistic feeling or emotion.  If you see something and it gives you goosebumps, a warm feeling, makes your heart happy or you react with “wow!” “oooooh!” “omg!” “aaaaaah!”, etc. tear it out!!!   Just attempt to flow through this part of the exercise without judging the images or words you choose.  Tear things out based on how it makes you feel without judging them since it is the feelings that are the most powerful part of this tool.  Put all of these images into a folder to sort through and cut out in the next step.

4.  Paste a radiant picture of yourself in the center of your vision board.  Start sorting, selecting, cutting and organizing your images by area of intention.  

Cut out and glue a radiant, happy photo of yourself in the center of your board. Review all your images again, this time keep only the images that conjure up a lot of excitement, ambition and enthusiasm.  Eliminate the images that no longer feel in alignment.   Begin cutting out and laying your words and images on your vision board working from the center photo of yourself outward, by area of intention or scattered if you chose a diffused theme (I like to keep the clippings from the images in a baggie so I can refer to them later to confirm my manifestations since location or other details are sometimes cut off the original images).

5.  Begin gluing everything on your board.  

You can arrange everything with adhesive putty first and then glue with craft glue once you have all of the images in the order you want them.

6.  Hang your vision board somewhere that you will see it everywhere.  

The goal of your vision board is to be a reminder of the things you are hoping to accomplish and the feelings you get from achieving them.  While creating your board is a motivator to achieving your goals, you need to take action to make your goals a reality.  Use the images to create a plan of action and then start doing what you need to do to turn those plans into a reality.  By viewing your vision board on a regular basis, and remembering the feelings you get from accomplishing your goals, you are maintaining focus and reminding yourself of what you hope to accomplish and more importantly the feeling you will have by obtaining these goals.  It is the feeling we are most attracted to with the outcome of a goal…not the goal itself.

Please share all of your vision board success stories in the comments below.  I love hearing all of your success stories and your stories of manifestations will help to inspire my followers too!

Happy Manifesting!  Wishing you all the BEST year in 2018 and the years to follow!

Make sure to checkout my guest appearance on Good Morning San Diego with everything you need to know about creating your very own Vision Board for 2018, so you can begin manifesting the life you’ve always dreamed of having. Sonya Berg Vision Boards